This week is Mental Health Awareness Week. During last year’s, Tom Walker wrote a post about why and how he set up Co-op Digital’s mental health meet-ups. A year on, Tom’s left but our fortnightly gatherings remain.
Now feels like a good time to kick off a conversation about what we can do to make sure they’re as helpful as they can be.
We’re looking for your suggestions.
The idea’s still the same
Simon Hurst and I run the meet-ups now. It’s important to make it clear that, like Tom, we’re not doctors either. We’re not qualified to diagnose a mental illness and we’re certainly not qualified to prescribe remedies.
But the meet-ups are a place where colleagues can speak freely, in confidence, and know that they’re among empathetic people. A year on, this stuff is still the same.
Meet-ups are still open to everyone, they’re still informal. There’s still no minutes, no register, no pressure.
But the numbers have dropped
Recently, we’ve noticed that fewer people are coming to meet-ups. Of course, that could be seen as a really good thing – people don’t feel that they need the meet-up anymore because they’re feeling happier and healthier.
As much as we’d love to believe that, we don’t think that’s the case.
Time to make changes
The lunchtime meet-ups did a job. They got people within Co-op talking about mental health, often publicly, often openly. They helped reassure people they didn’t need to feel ashamed and that they weren’t alone.
It’s clear from speaking to people that even though there appears to be less demand for a mental health meet-up every other week, the idea of it existing, the idea of it being there if it’s needed, is comforting.
However, it’s time to adapt to meet people’s needs. We asked people who attend for their thoughts.
We learnt that:
- some people find getting out of the office, in the fresh air, over lunchtime helps them most and, ironically, the meet-up was messing with that
- everyone’s busy and taking time out in the middle of the day isn’t always easy
In response to that, here’s what we’re thinking of trying:
- Arranging walks – mental health meet-ups where we can walk and talk and take people out of the office.
- Drop-in slots – spreading out the times when we could meet up so there’s no set time and support’s there as and when it’s needed.
- Changing the day of the meet-ups.
Let us know what you think in the comments. Your feedback matters.
Mental health first aid training
We recently invited Mental Health First Aid England (MHFA) into Co-op Digital and a handful of colleagues took part in a mental health ‘first aid’ training course. The idea is that we can look after team mental health and morale better if we have ‘first aiders’ who recognise early on when team members are struggling.
In theory, agile teams are fairly healthy. Relatively speaking. Agile ceremonies like daily stand-ups and fortnightly retros act as check-ins with the team – they’re places to bring up struggles, blockers and concerns.
But the take-away point from the training was that we all need to learn how to listen. In Digital, our job is to solve problems. Because of this, it’s easy to throw ‘answers’ out to colleagues who are struggling. The training taught us how effective just listening, without proposing solutions, can be.
Help and be helped
And there’s us, in Digital. You can request to join our dedicated and private mental health Slack channel.
We’ll continue to be here, in whatever format works for our colleagues and friends. Your feedback will shape this. We hope to hear from you soon.